We were engrossed in chatting on a Sunday evening, my friend's 2 year old son started throwing tantrums by rolling on the floor screaming loudly, taken aback she tried to cajole him and promised to get ice cream, he stopped instantly. Many a times we just ignore babies in our work thus to seek attention babies opt such things and succeed in capturing our whole attention. Next time obviously this becomes a tool. Underestimating kids is our weakness but the babies seem to note our pulse accurately and use timely tricks to get whatever they want at the right moment without even letting us know!
The question is why we think kids won't understand anything many a times? Actually while in womb safe from every trouble the baby concentrates on understanding parents attitudes first than the rest of the things.
Why do children throw tantrums? A thing if told in proper manner genuinely is set deep in the tender minds always gets much expected response this is my personal experience with 3 kids. We lived in rural area where every evening and morning kids were given anything available nearby to eat but certainly not hygienic and being little aware I always rejected the idea somehow and told my kids clearly the related things and surprisingly my kids never ashamed me by throwing tantrums. I always gave priority to kids than household chores in the morning. When their tummy was full they paid least attention on silly things so the babies needs must be given utmost importance by us so that they do not feel neglected .
Most of the times kids are given false promises just to cajole them and later not even considered, in such circumstances kids would show their dislikes by throwing tantrums as they can show their displeasure by behaving differently, only available way! Instead of such deceptive behaving sense we can tell them clearly our intentions so that a deep understanding is formed and kids behave sensible. Well mannered kids are liked by all but how we treat them is very important. Given importance they feel a sense of responsibility to behave decently when out of home. We can motivate them, can certainly guide to do the same by behaving gently.
Many kids have the habit of lying, we blame them easily but sometimes elders tell to lie as not being at home, or busy. these things get stored in mind and next time they lie casually without considering it a wrong thing. At times to attract attention of parents, sometimes to escape a strict punishment from parents, sometimes to be in an imaginary world where they can feel happy also kids lie. Need not take seriously but it must be explained with patience and understanding rather strictness so that importance is laid on honesty.
Our kids have tremendous sense of observing and copying. Providing genuine atmosphere to kids would be the best thing to rear our children in healthy manner. When we behave well with people around us easily kids would be motivated to do the same.
Our rearing has great impact on kids mental growth.
Mental impacts leave ever lasting impressions.
The question is why we think kids won't understand anything many a times? Actually while in womb safe from every trouble the baby concentrates on understanding parents attitudes first than the rest of the things.
Why do children throw tantrums? A thing if told in proper manner genuinely is set deep in the tender minds always gets much expected response this is my personal experience with 3 kids. We lived in rural area where every evening and morning kids were given anything available nearby to eat but certainly not hygienic and being little aware I always rejected the idea somehow and told my kids clearly the related things and surprisingly my kids never ashamed me by throwing tantrums. I always gave priority to kids than household chores in the morning. When their tummy was full they paid least attention on silly things so the babies needs must be given utmost importance by us so that they do not feel neglected .
Most of the times kids are given false promises just to cajole them and later not even considered, in such circumstances kids would show their dislikes by throwing tantrums as they can show their displeasure by behaving differently, only available way! Instead of such deceptive behaving sense we can tell them clearly our intentions so that a deep understanding is formed and kids behave sensible. Well mannered kids are liked by all but how we treat them is very important. Given importance they feel a sense of responsibility to behave decently when out of home. We can motivate them, can certainly guide to do the same by behaving gently.
Many kids have the habit of lying, we blame them easily but sometimes elders tell to lie as not being at home, or busy. these things get stored in mind and next time they lie casually without considering it a wrong thing. At times to attract attention of parents, sometimes to escape a strict punishment from parents, sometimes to be in an imaginary world where they can feel happy also kids lie. Need not take seriously but it must be explained with patience and understanding rather strictness so that importance is laid on honesty.
Our kids have tremendous sense of observing and copying. Providing genuine atmosphere to kids would be the best thing to rear our children in healthy manner. When we behave well with people around us easily kids would be motivated to do the same.
Our rearing has great impact on kids mental growth.
Mental impacts leave ever lasting impressions.
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